Debbie & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was a great guy with a great outlook on life. (My daughter Jamie was one of the lucky Rockland High gradutates who received a scholarship from Eagle Glass) You are all in our Prayers Memory Eternal!

Deb,Erin,little Ob, Kellie, I can't even beging to express my sorrow. OB was a great man all around, no matter where you saw him either in the ice rink or around the town. He was a great man who cared about each person. He was also a great role modle and coach. I will never forget the eagles hockey games, and tournys with him on the bench. he made playing hockey fun every single year.My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this hard time. R.I.P Ob, coach, Friend

This memory is for Stephen's family. Stephen and I were neighbors for many years, we both came from large families. He was lucky, he lived on second street, I lived in Kemble Place and referred to as the "ally cats". Later on we both worked together at Lite World in South Boston, we had many laughs together. I remember his wife Debbie who was always laughing and smiling. I can't believe Stephen and Debbie have been married for 25 years, and that he was already a grandfather. I am sadden by the loss of another young person, I can relate to the pain and sadness you will be feeling, our family has also lost a brother at a young age. My brother Michael past away two years ago and it still feels like yesterday. Stephen will be remembered in my prayers, along with his mother Nancy and wife Debbie. God bless, Jean Flores Monahan

To Nancy and your entire family, It is never a good thing to bury your child. No matter his age. Stephen will be missed by all. IRISH BLESSING MAY THE ROAD RISE UP TO MEET YOU MAY THE WIND ALWAYS BE AT YOUR BACK MAY THE SUN SHINE WARM UPON YOUR FACE AND RAINS FALL SOFT UPON YOUR FIELDS AND UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND Rest in Peace Stephen Dolly Sutera and family

Dear Debbie, Erin, Little Obie and Kellie: Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your husband and father. When Chris moved to Rockland, Steve was supportive, encouraging and never stopped searching for a family for Chris. We have lost a caring, loving and genuine spirit and Heaven has a new angel. The love Steve showed his wife and family was truly a fine example of how a husband and father should treat his family. I am eternally grateful for that and for all of Steve's support, interest and mentoring with Chris. May you find strength in the moments, days and months knowing that Steve is in Heaven and waiting to welcome you one day. God Bless. Sincerely, Karen, Chris Brown & Family

Debbie, I am so sorry about the loss of your husband, Steve. I didn't know him but with all I have been reading about him, he was a wonderful man. My prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May all your good memberies of Steve, plus the prayers from your friends and family help you all through thes darkest days. God Bless! Judy

Very tragic,Our prayers go out to family and loved ones.I know Obie will be missed.

Kellie - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. All of us at Camp Harbor View are wishing you the best as you move through this difficult time. Please know that we're here for you and your family if there is anything we can do. Much love from all of us at CHV

So many wonderful memories of Steve with the south shore eagles. By far the best D coach to my son Bob. Always an encouraging word to the players on and off the bench. Wish we could share one more drink at the old sons. The love he showed to his wife & family was real & a blessing. The world lost a wonderful husband, son , sibling , dad and friend. thanks for the memories and wonderful hockey my friend.

Debbie and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Obie touched a lot of people and made lasting impressions forever. He has been our friend for years and we will miss his smile and big heart. For those who never had the chance to meet him sure missed out on a terrific guy. If there is anything we can do please let us know. To our friend Rest in Peace OBie! MIke and Mary Garofalo

Jimmy and Kathy, My Deepest Condolences and may God be with your Family during this trying time. God Bless Tom Dentremont

Debbie & family ,I am so sorry for your loss,my prayer;s go out to all of you. Debbie Sheehan

Dearest Debbie and family, I just heard the tragic news about Steve. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this very sad time in your lives. Deb, if there is anything at all that I can do to help you through this, please call me at any time at all. God bless your family in your deepest time of need. Marlys

Dibbie and Family i am so sorry for your loss My thouhs and prayers go out to your hole family Deb Steve came to me by way of you when you came on the planning board the fasrt time I meet him I could tell he was going to be a great friend to have if I call for helpwith glass he wood come runing when we wear plowing he wood call me and ask if I need anythink or say meet him at spring st ballfield and have egg sandwich for us that you made for him or say how about some hot soup you made for him this is how he was thinking of everone before him I will miss call at 1 2 3 in the moning to see how i was I will miss him as a truly great friend DEB it is going to be hard to go out plowing knowing steve will not be out looking after me eat and take my med,s he will always be in my thought when i go out i will be think of his call to say how more penny,s from heaven are come as now he will be sending them to me GOD BLESS YOU STEVE BOB BAKER

To The O'Brien Family.. I am so sorry to hear about Steve...he was such a great guy...made me laugh every single time I saw him! I know that words cannot take away what you are feeling right now. Just know that you are in everyones thoughts and prayers. Love to you all...xoxo The Woodward & Medeiros Family

To the O'Brien Family, Why does God always take the great ones early? I can't express how sorry I am for your tragic loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers today and always. Irene

To the O'Brien family: Very sorry to hear about the tragic passing of Steve. We have lots of great memories of the years our kids all played hockey and later when the old man played with Steve and his friends at the Rockland Rink until the wee hours of the morning. He was kind and generous to our family and we will remember this always. In death you are remembered for what you stood for. There is no question what Steve stood for. Heaven has picked up a helluva defensemen with a wicked shot and a bellringing check. I hope the other guys are wearing good pads. Bill, Marianne, Jimmy, Steve, Lauren, and Meghan

Dear O’Brien family I am sorry for your lost Steve he was a great guy and he will be always be remembered god bless Brian selter and family

Debbie and family, We are very sad to hear the news of Steve. We have such great memories of him from many years of hockey and we share in your grief. How lucky you were to have such a great person everyday in your lives. Some people say you should not look back in your life but I believe you should because your past holds such great memories. Hold them close. With love and prayers to all of you, Steve and Carla Dunn

Dear Deb and family,our deepest sympathy for your loss. Just remember, you now have an angel looking over all of you. God Bless you all.

Dear Deb and family-It saddens us to hear of your loss. A wonderful man will surely be missed by all. I remember one summer day dropping off our son Dane and his belongings to a family I did not know. Having the opportunity to play for the Bay State Breakers Dane found himself in the home of a 'billet' family. I hoped he would like his new found family and that they would like him as well. But more selfishly, wondering if they would take care of him the way our family would. Well, Dane had a great year in Rockland, and in large part had to do with Steve and Deb making him feel at home. Over the years Dane and Big Steve would keep in touch. Whether it be to wish a Merry Christmas or argue about who had the better sports teams, all I know is Dane enjoyed those phone calls. Deb, our thoughts are with you today and everyday as you remember the loving memories shared with Steve and yourself. Prayerfully, Rich and Christine Hetland

Paul and family, Sorry for the loss of Stephen, he was a great guy! He wil be missed! Irving and Family Nationwide Glass

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I work at Pilkington Glass and have known Steve for many years. He was a sweet man and will be missed.

To the entire O'Brien family, I wanted to extend my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I cannot even imagine what you are all going through right now. I haven't known your family very long, but you are some of the kindest, most down to earth people in this town. Steve was a great guy who had a way of making others feel at ease. I could tell he was the type of person who would give you the shirt off his back. He also had a great sense of humor and was fun to be around; with his positive energy, smile, and obvious zest for life. I feel lucky to have had the pleasure of knowing him for the brief time that I did. He talked about his kids and his grandson everytime I would see him out and about- I could tell he loved you all deeply and was very proud of you. My heart breaks for all of you, and I wanted you to know you are constantly in my prayers and thoughts.

Debbie & Family Stella and I are heart broken over what happened to Steve and our hearts go out to all of you. We will keep everyone in our thoughts and prayers.Debbie, please keep in mind that if there is anything Stella and I can do to help you through this very difficult time please let us know. Steve was a great guy and we will miss his outgoing and happy spirit. All our love - Stella and John Rogers

Deb & Family, Words can not express my sorrow at your loss. You are constanly in my thoughts and prayers. Debbie, the love and respect you and Steve shared was incredible. Keep family and friends close during this tough time. Julie

To the O'Brien Family I am so sorry to hear about the loss of a great husband, father and grand father. From what I understand your father was a family man and helped everyone in need. May you know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of everyone. May angels lead your husband, father in to the heaven he deserves

My Heart goes out to you Deb, and your whole Family, Steve will be missed, Distance has kept me away from one of the greatest guy's I've ever had the pleasure of befriending, When we were growing up Steve always made us crack up, and the antics and fun we had together I'll have in my heart for the rest of my life, It makes me happy to know that Heaven has someone to smile with. God Bless and Godspeed O'B And God Bless the O'brien Family Don, Renee, and Gavin Morley

Deb, Erin, Steve & Kellie, I can't tell you how deeply sorry I feel for your loss. Stephen was truly a great man. Everytime we got together he always had a smile on his face letting me know he was genuinly happy to see me. He was the real deal! He will be soarly missed by so many!! Although we mourn his passing here I know he is in heaven with Jesus and is in the best place of all. I also know although he won't physically be here he will always be with each of us in our hearts. His ways will live on through his family especially his children as he and you Deb have brought your children up to be the kind wonderful people you are. I am so blessed to know you all and to have known your dad. Anything I can do to help you through this difficult time just say the word. Take care & God Bless, Sheryl

Deb and Family, I am so truly sorry to hear of your loss. Steve was a wonderful person and very pleasant to talk with. He was one of the good ones and he will be sorely missed. My heart goes out to you and your family throughout this sad time. God Bless

When I think of Steve...I think of someone who is genunily a real friend....kind, considerate, and loving. He was so good to my son, Darren, who lived with him for a year or more during hockey season....he was like a second parent....I knew Darren was in the best of hands with Steve and Deb....I had the honor of being escorted down the aisle by Steve at Darren's wedding....I wanted Steve to do that. Steve, you went way too soon...you will be missed so much by all...Love you....Donna

In my life I have been blessed to know some VERY cool people. Steven tops that list. He ALWAYS went out of his way to make sure people were comfortable in their suroundings,ALWAYS! ... I find that to be the mark of a true gentleman. I rate a man by just how bright peoples eyes get when they walk in the room...All eye's were ALWAYS on him and smiles lit up the room whenever he entered...I notice simple things like that and it ALWAYS made me smile to think that thats MY friend that just entered. From the first time I met him in the Hockey rink parking lot surounded by all his buddies ,goof'n around'n have'n fun I knew he was the real deal and a quality individual. I am blessed to have known him and honered to have called him a friend. My heart is with all who Loved him and were blessed to have his genuine love in return. Rest easy my friend. I Love You

Although we wouldn't see one another for a while. when we did, it was as though we picked up right where we last left off. I wish that I would have been able to stay in touch after our teenage years more than we were able, you will be missed, my friend and you will be a part of my most sacred memories forever. rest in peace Stevie, God proves once again that he only takes the best. Our hearts are with the Obrien family in this time of sadness

My business partner and I offer our most sincere condolences to you and your family. You have lost someone who touched the lives of many people, including ours. In this difficult time, you remain close in thought and heart.

god bless you, debbie,erin ,steven,kellie.

DEBBIE & FAMILY SO THA SORRY TO HEAR OF STEVE OBIE, IT WAS AN HONOR COACHING NEXT TO YOU WE HAD QUITE THE TEAM DIDNT WE WHO WILL EVER FORGET THAT YEAR!!!!! I WILL THINK OF YOU OFTEN AND REMEMBER YOU ALWAYS WITH THAT TWINKLE IN YOUR EYE AND SMILE ON YOUR FACE REST MY FRIEND

Growing up at 0’n 2nd with the O’Brien’s living around the corner gave me an extended family from the day I moved there in the 2nd grade. Even back then he was always bringing smiles to people’s faces, being one of the ‘class-clowns’. Everybody knows he loved Castle Island and I’m happy recalling the memories of racing around the island on our bikes when we were kids. He was like a brother as a kid and as we got older continued to always watch our backs. He went from being “Little Steve-O� to “Big OBie�. Thank you Debbie for marrying Stevie, keeping him happy and proud all these years, and for keeping him a part of our family. You are the glue that kept us together all these years. May God hold all of you close. Love All of You, Mozo

Obie, It's not good bye...it's I'll see you later..All we ask is just have an ice cold one and Cigar waiting for us when it is our time to join you.... to a friend a family member and a hero of everyone and mine....Obie your the man and will never be forgotten....Love you Big Ob's. Obie, you where like my 2nd dad, and my 2nd famliy, you where always there for me whenever I needed you and I thank you for that, now it's my turn and I will help look after Deb and the kids whenever they need me...you where one of a kind and a great Family man..thank you again... Prooffessor

Our thoughts and prays are with you. JOE, Diane, Brian and Nick Rogers

To the O'Brien Family, We are so sorry to hear what happened to Stephen. Our thoughts and prays are with you Gail and Brandon Dearth

WE DID NOT KNOW STEVE FOR VERY LONG BUT HIS COMPANY WAS ALWAYS A PLEASURE WE WILL MISS HIM. OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHT GO OUT TO THE O'BRIENS

Deb and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We will never forget the times when we all got together. Going to the Bahamas with the both of you and our freinds will never be forgotten. We had enough fun on those trips to last a life time. Steve played a major role in all that fun with his great sense of humor and wit. He was a great man, I don't think I can ever remember him with out a smile on his face or telling a joke. He will truly be missed by all.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Everything remains as it was. The old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no sorrow in your tone. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting, when we meet again

To the O'Brien Family, My deepest sympathy for the loss of your wonderful husband and father. Steve was one of the nicest guys I've ever met. It was written all over his face how much he loved you all whenever he talked about you. May he find eternal peace.

Deb, I was so sorry to hear about your husband. I never met Steve, but from what I have read and heard, he was someone special. My deepest sympathies on your loss. Marcia Hogan

DEAR NANCY & FAMILY. I FEEL YOUR HEARTBREAK. MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU...GOD BLESS. BILLY O'NEILL.

Debbie and family, My heartfelt sorrow goes out to you at this difficult time. I had the pleasure of meeting Steve through friday night hockey. He was so friendly and kind. He was quick with a laugh and a joke and he really made me feel welcome and a part of the family. I want to extend my condolence for your great loss. we was a truly wonderful man. He will be missed.

Deb and family, our sincerest condolonces in the loss of Steve. He was a friend to all at RAS, but more importantly a wonderful husband, father, grandfather. Our prayers are with you, he was trully a gentleman. John Medlin

Words cannot explain the loss of a loved one. He is in Heaven in a better place. He was such a great friend and would help anyone he could. I appreciated our business relationships and he was always good to my family. Debbie, Erin, Steve, and Kellie... My thought are with you!

Debbie and all Family Members, How sad i was to hear of your great loss, I have such great memories of our hockey days together. Winning in triple over time down at Marthas Vineyard........ With three Cooksons on the team it was hard to remember who went with who. Just know that he will always be with you all the days and nights just look up at the stars and thats where you can find a great guy. God Bless you all,Betty McInerney (Cookson) and Family

Dear O'Brien Family, I'm so sorry to hear about Steve passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. It sounds like he lived a wonderful life and I'm sure he will be greatly missed. Sincerely, Dianna Staunton

very sad to hear what has happened. I lost touch with steve after the teenage years but can tell from all the sentiments expressed here that he stayed the good natured person i remember him as. I regret that we never got to reconnect. I am not surprised to hear how much he meant to so many people and that he kept Southie in his heart. I wish that we had run into each other one of those times that I was at castle island remembering that part of my childhood.I will miss my old friend.God bless to his family and friends.

Dear Debbie & Family There are not enough words to express how sad we all are about what happened to Steve. He was a wonderful person, full of life. We think back to all the great times we had during our hockey years. He was a great coach & friend to all his players and there families. He will be missed so much by all who had the pleasure to know him. Debbie, if you or your family needs anything please don't hesitate to call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. With Love and Friendship, Brad, Marie, Justin, Matt, & Daniel Chase

Deepest condolences to Steve's family & friends. Where there were smiles and laughter you'd usually find Steve at the center of things. He was one of those kind-hearted and generous souls so rarely found in the physical world. We need more like him. I, for one, am richer in spirit for having known Stephen "Obie" O'Brien. Thank you, Steve!

Words can't express how sad our hearts are. Our prayers and thoughts are with Stephen's family & friends at such an inconsolable time. I grew up with Stephen and did not see him too much as an adult however, the last time I saw him was @ Alice Sawaya's home a few years ago. I remember being moved at how much he enjoyed his children and how highly he spoke of his wife. He talked at length with me, and my husband, whom he had never met prior to that day. My husband and I were playing a game and I was loosing and Stephen kept saying "come on Karen, you can do it! " When we left Alice's my husband made a remark about how much he enjoyed talking with Stephen and what a "good man" he was...a compliment not given lightly. Stephen's gift for encouragement, loyalty to family & friends, and his infectious laugh, are what I remember vividly about him, as a child and during the few times I did see him as an adult. I am grateful that I got to connect w/him again. Karen Hill-Dewhirst

Dear Debbie & Family: So sorry for your loss. Steve was a great guy in the short time I got to know him . Your family will always be in our prayers and may he rest in peace

To Debbi and family, Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. Steve was a GREAT guy who always made me feel welcomed in a all male organization. He always had a great smile and a contagist laugh, He will be missed by all who ever met him. And my life was better for knowing him. I'm so very very sorry for your loss.

Heaven was getting a little boring. Obie was called in. Enough said. Rest in Peace my good friend and coaching partner.

my prayers go out the O'Brien family. You were always a great guy Steve

Deb and family, Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. Although we only moved into the neighborhood two months ago, when we met Steve we immediately knew he was a great guy and would be not only a wonderful neighbor but a long time friend. We had immediate connections and found that we had many people in common. Steve welcomed us with his big personality and his big heart. I know he will be deeply missed by all of you. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you…at any time. With sincere sympathy, Linda and Bob Locurto

Debbie, I am sorry for your loss. I know how much he meant to you and I know he will be missed greatly. I just keep imagining how much God must have wanted Stephen to be with him and that is why he was called home, but I just feel so bad for you and your family. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. Words can not express how sad, and shocked,I am. I know how strong your faith is and it will help carry you through this and the rest of life's journeys. Please know that i am thinking of you and your family and my prayers are with you. Shirley McCloud

You will be missed very deeply. I will truely miss our cigars and soft drinks at the Eagles in Rockland. I wish you all the best now that you are in god's hands.

Deb and family... We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Steve. What a wonderful, funloving man whom will be greatly missed be all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time and also know that we are here if you need anything at all. God Bless! The Corvi Family