Mary Biggins Taft
01/31/1953 - 03/23/2016
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Obituary For Mary Biggins Taft
MADISON, WI- Mary E. (Biggins) Taft, 63, entered her Eternal Rest March, 23, 2016 at the University of Wisconsin Hospital in Madison, WI, in the loving care of her transplant team and surrounded by family.
Born to the late Eleanor Rose (Wasgatt) Biggins and Thomas Joseph Biggins, Jr. in Worcester, MA on January 31, 1953. Mary was the oldest of their six children. She graduated Cathedral High School in Springfield, MA and then Framingham State College (1975) with a degree in home economics education. On a blind date during her time in college, Mary met Donald Allen Taft. The two courted via daily, written correspondence while Don served as a lieutenant in the Army Corp of Engineers. On January 5, 1974, while he was on a weekend pass from Fort Meade, Mary and Don married.
Mary was a natural-born teacher and perpetual advocate for children. She taught home economics professionally in the Dorchester neighborhood of Boston, MA, and in St. Louis County, MO. She taught avocationally as a CCD instructor for over 25 years. She lent considerable efforts to parent teacher organizations in New Hampshire, Wisconsin and Minnesota.
The true passion of Mary's life was her family.
A supportive sister, Mary was a confidant and friend to all of her siblings, especially filling in where she could after their mother passed away. She constructed her sister's wedding dress. She went out of her way to attend family weddings and baptisms. Mary cultivated intimate and meaningful relationships with her nieces and nephews. Hand-crafted gifts, significant visits and personal nicknames were commonplace. She became a special "Mimi" aunt for one of her brothers' children. Last autumn, for another niece, Mary altered her sister-in-law's vintage wedding dress.
In her roles as wife and mother, Mary derived her greatest joy. Motherhood began for Mary with the birth of her twin sons, Benjamin and William. Her family grew to include Nathaniel and Eleanor. She and Don worked hard and took great pride in the kind of people their children became, children who organized neighborhood kickball games which included every child, children who valued honesty over self promotion, children who could win a game of checkers on their own terms. As her children grew into adults and married, Mary welcomed each of her children's spouses into the family with warmth, friendship and unquestioned love. Family gatherings were exuberant, joyous celebrations and it is no exaggeration to say the love Mary imbued into the food she made for these gatherings was known to evoke joyful tears. Mary's was a home brimming with love.
In 2007 Mary became a Nana, a title for which she had longed all her life and a role in which she excelled. She had a gift to help each grandchild understand how uniquely beloved they are. She never tired of reading them stories, answering their questions, showering them with millions of kisses, or cuddling them to sleep when she visited. Mary lovingly made handcrafted gifts for all her grandchildren, from delicate, heirloom baptismal gowns to now threadbare blankets. Mary expressed her love for each grandchild through these gifts and through them her love for her grandchildren will endure.
All who knew Mary will miss her joie de vivre. She was a woman who bubbled when she laughed, which she did often and freely. She liked driving fast and rooting for the good guys. She delighted in eating crispy fries and celebrating with treats of ice cream. She was outgoing and caring, never missing an opportunity to smile at a baby or to make a genuine connection with a stranger. She was a gifted storyteller and lifelong theater-lover, taking as much pleasure from a broadway musical as she did from middle-school plays. But most especially everyone who knew Mary will miss the beautiful sparkle in her eyes; no one's eyes radiated love more than Mary's did.
She was preceded in death by her mother, Eleanor Rose (Wasgatt) Biggins.
She is survived by her most beloved, best friend and husband, Donald Allen Taft of Brandon, SD. She was the loving mother of four children, Benjamin N. Taft and his wife Natalia of Racine, WI, William B.Taft and his wife Jessica of Madison, WI, Nathaniel N. Taft and his wife Elise of Mt. Horeb, WI and Eleanor Mary Dickinson and her husband Jacob of Sioux Falls, SD. She was the greatly beloved "Nana" of seven grandchildren Norah McKenzie, Lydia Morgan, Gabrielle Zella, Evelyn Mary, Zebulon Donald, Micah Benjamin and Louisa Simone.
She is also survived by her father, Thomas (Doris) Biggins of Toms River, NJ and siblings Thomas (Donna) Biggins of Sudbury, MA, Robert (the late Christine) Biggins of Rockland, MA, Daniel (Lynn) Biggins of Worcester, MA, Ann (Randy) Hulette of Falls Church, VA, Joseph (Kerrie) Biggins of Acton, MA and many nieces, nephews and life long friends.
The Taft Family invites friends and family to celebrate Mary's life at the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street in Holden on Friday June 3, 2016 from 5:00-8:00 PM. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Saturday June 4, 2016 at 1:00 PM at Our lady Of the Angels Church 1222 Main Street in Worcester.
Condolences
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05/25/2021
Sharon Deen-Darman
Thank you Mary, for being one of my sister Janet Deen's best friends. She loved you so much, still does, as do all of us that knew you. We know that you are flying with your angels now, no more pain, no more medicine, just pure joy and happiness.....Until we meet again, dear Mary
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05/25/2021
Anne Marie Hayes
Blessings to the whole Biggin's clan, your sister was a beautiful woman. Her story is one of love...may your memories comfort you at this challenging time. Fondly Anne Marie and Michael Hayes
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05/25/2021
Ernie & Natalie Rivard
Condolances to Mary's large and wonderful family. Mary was a fine classmate and respected leader at Cathedral High School in Springfield, MA. I was a pleasure to reconnect with her years later at the Passionist retreat center in Shrewsbury! What a beautiful example of blessing she has been to so many! Thanks Mary!
May all her family and friends in turn be blessed in Holy Peace ....
Ernie ('71) and Natalie Rivard, Shrewsbury, MA -
05/25/2021
Janet Buckley Pope
I have fond memories of Mary at FSC. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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05/25/2021
Melanie Demarais
Dear Mr. Biggins, Joe, Dan, Lynn and Mary's extended family:
My sincere condolences for the loss of Mary. She was too young to pass away. I cannot attend her memorial service but I will be there in spirit, as will our community at Assumption College.
Please know you are all in our heart and prayers.
Peace,
Melanie -
05/25/2021
Bob Biggins
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05/25/2021
Merle Hazard
On this Mother's Day I think of all the wonderful mothering things Mary did for me. I know family miss her especially .....this surely is Mary's Day. She was a loving example of the very best in mothering.
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05/25/2021
Janet Hickey
Bob,I am sorry for your loss.
Peace and love,
Janet -
05/25/2021
Kate Ballering
You don't meet many truly good and inspiring people in a lifetime. I was lucky to have met one. My friend for 24 years in life. My friend forever. Love you Mary.
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05/25/2021
Su Marotz
We are so very sorry for your loss of Mary. We loved her - and we send our love to you. God's peace and strength - Su and Jim
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05/25/2021
Rosemarie Lutz
My heart is heavy with the loss of Mary. She was truly the greatest of friends and I am grateful we had the opportunity to reconnect after a 23 year physical absence. I always enjoyed her Christmas greetings and chats on the phone. My sincerest sympathy to Don and all of the family. She will be greatly missed as she was such a wonder to everyone who knew her. Much love, Rosie Lutz
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05/25/2021
Bill Taylor
My thoughts and prayers go to Mary's family and friends. She must have been a great person because I know her father and her kind, thoughtful loving sister Ann.
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05/25/2021
Rev. Kathryn Timpany
What a beautiful story of Mary is told here. The gift she was to the world will reverberate far and wide for years to come.
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05/25/2021
Harry Acosta
It is with a broken heart that I am sending this email my condolences to the Taft family from the members of the 76 engr battalion. I know that our hearts and prayers are with you. God bless you all. May God give you the strength to endure through this time. Always remember that you will be in our prayers.
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05/25/2021
Grady and Linda Miles
Don ,so sad to hear about Mary.She was one of the most courageous and graceful ladies we have known. Love to All Grady and LINDA. May the Gods be with you.
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05/25/2021
john wallace
Don, so sad to hear of the loss of Mary, she was a special person and Godmother to our son, Mark. Prayers are with you and your family, Johnny and Barbara
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05/25/2021
Denise Bissonnette
So very sorry for your loss, Mary was a beautiful person
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05/25/2021
Robert Schofield
Bob. My sympathy on the loss of your sister. Bob Schofield. Wayland, MA
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05/25/2021
Merle Hazard
The world is a far better place for having had Mary in it. My deepest sympathy.
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05/25/2021
LARRY RYAN
Mary, you sound as if you made a difference in the world! What more can you ask for. Your family and friends appear to love you very much. Rest in Peace knowing you are well loved.
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05/25/2021
Marie Woodward
"The light of the eyes rejoiceth the heart" and Mary rejoiced greatly and caused a lot of rejoicing. Mary and the entire Biggins clan continue to be in our prayers.
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