Mark Lelyveld
Passed 10/25/2007
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Obituary For Mark Lelyveld
Mark Lelyveld, 89, of Rockland, died on Thursday October 25th at the South Shore Hospital. He was born on August 3, 1918. He grew up at 129 Pacific St in Rockland, the son of Miriam and Abraham Lelyveld. In the late 1920's, he lived through the Scarlett Fever epidemic that weakened and eventually took the life of his younger brother, Abraham Jr. in 1931. He started working at Lelyveld's Shoe Store, a staple of Union Street commerce founded by his father in 1911, when he was in the 5th grade. While a student at Rockland High School ,he played trombone in the band, played varsity football, was an Honor Society member, and was the editor of the school newspaper and yearbook. Mark graduated from RHS in 1936, in the heart of the great depression. His class wore paper caps and gowns to the ceremony. He then went to Bates College. He majored in economics and sociology, but his real interests were writing and journalism. He was business manager of the literary magazine, the Garnet, and the humor magazine, the Buffoon, as well as Editor of the Bates weekly student newspaper. Upon graduation in 1940 with an AB degree, he headed off to Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism. It was there, on a double date with another girl, that he met Addie (Adelaide) Katz. Addie was his roommate's date. Late at night, over a cup of coffee at Chock-Full-Of-Nuts, he told his roommate that if the roommate did not marry Addie, he certainly would some day. Mark did not make a play for Addie's affections that night, but he kept track of Addie's personal situation through mutual friends as he completed the Columbia program. Addie, in fact, became engaged to his roommate, but was never serious about it and broke it off. Mark earned his MS degree, but skipped his Columbia graduation ceremony to begin a job as police and city hall reporter for the New Bedford Standard-Times. On February 15, 1942, soon after Pearl Harbor, he was sworn into the Army. He advanced from Corporal to Master Sergeant. Throughout this period he stayed in touch with Addie. On October 1st, 1944 he asked her to marry him. One week later on October 8th, they were married in New York City's Café Loyale, with about 50 family members and friends from both sides looking on. Their first child, Susanne, was born on November 21, 1945. After the war Mark found that journalism could not pay the bills for a growing family, so he went to work full time at Lelyveld's Shoe Store, with his father and his brother Edward. The name Lelyveld became synonymous with feet and foot health to many locals. Aside from regular men's, woman's, and children's shoes, the store was a pioneer in orthopedics. Edward was a trained podiatrist. So were Mark's uncle Joseph and brother Benjamin; who had separate podiatric practices in Rockland. Doctors and podiatrists throughout the area sent their patients to Lelyveld's for fittings, orthopedic shoes, and custom-made prescription footwear. The store was the largest independent retailer of Stride Rite shoes in New England and a retailer of E.T. Wright shoes, a high-end men's shoe manufactured in Rockland. Lelyveld's Shoe Store closed on Wednesday afternoons, in concert with other Union Street retailers. It was an opportunity to travel to Boston to bring out new shoes to restock the shelves. A record was kept for every customer, and cards were mailed three months after every purchase inviting customers to come in for a no-obligation check-up to make sure that their shoes still fit. This was greatly appreciated by busy parents of growing children. Mark was active in the Rockland Merchants Association and the Rockland Chamber of Commerce, which coordinated marketing and community service work among the local merchants, including funding the holiday lights along Union St. In 1946 Mark and Edward took over control of the shoe store from their father, although Abraham continued to work at the business for many years afterwards. Mark handled the finances, and Edward took care of buying. Mark and Addie's son Steven was born on August 25, 1948, and son Philip on September 2, 1952. After living at 46 Exchange St. and then the house they had built at 25 Howard St., Mark and Addie moved the family to 40 Butternut Lane in 1959, where they have lived ever since. Addie started working at the shoe store in 1966, when Philip was in the 7th grade. She soon became the star salesperson, especially for little children who didn't like trying on new shoes. The Lelyveld family was very active in the local community, and Lelyveld's Shoe Store was an unofficial center for discussing local politics and community development. Abraham Lelyveld founded the Rockland Credit Union in 1922, and served as its President for 47 years. Mark served on the Board of Directors from November 1956 until November 1982, and on the Loan Committee from 1955 to 1982. From 1956 to 1982 the assets of the Rockland Credit Union grew from $975K to $138M. Mark was a part of the drive to establish Rockland's Housing Authority in 1964 lead by Town Clerk Ralph Belcher. On March 8, 1966, the town accepted the final plans for a proposed 7 building, 42 unit Housing for the Elderly project on 2 ½ acres "easterly of Spring St. and southerly of Market St." The project was named Studley Court in memory of Ezekial R. Studley, who played a prominent role in establishing the Town or Rockland when it was set apart from Abington in March, 1874 and who also served as Rockland's first Town Clerk. Mark was elected Assistant Treasurer of the Housing Authority, and Studley Court was opened for occupancy on June 1, 1967. In 1972 the Town approved an expansion of the program, including additional construction. Seventeen apartments in Rockland Place became available to elderly citizens in 1973 under the state's low-income program. In Mark's final year of service on the Housing Authority, 1977, Federal funding for 40 additional units for the elderly and handicapped was finally approved. Garden Terrance on Albion St. was dedicated on October 3, 1982. The Rockland Housing Authority paid for all of its projects through state and federal subsidies as well as income from the properties, taking nothing from the Town budget. Lelyveld 's Shoe Store was sold in 1979. It was a highly personal business, and the new owners did not adjust to the expectations of the clientele. The store closed soon afterwards. Mark and Addie have remained active in the local community throughout their retirement. For many years they funded an annual college scholarship given to a student who has demonstrated strong academic achievement. They also developed a new, second circle of friends by spending many winters at the Oakwoods apartments in Marina del Rey, California, near his son Philip and grandson David, Susanne's son.
Mark is survived by his wife of 63 years, Adelaide Katz Lelyveld, his children Susanne, Steven, and Philip, and his grandchildren Michelle, David, and Katie. He is also survived by his brother Edward, and was preceded in death by his brother Benjamin.
Funeral Services were at 12:30 PM on Friday, October 26th at the Magoun-Biggins Funeral Home followed by burial in Vine Hill Cemetery in Plymouth. Memorial donations may be made to the Rockland Fire Department Equipment Donation Fund, P.O. Box 542 Rockland, MA 02370.
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05/25/2021
Marion Simon
Dear Mark, you and your Addie enriched my life. I miss you when I don't see you as often as I'd wish and now I will miss you for the rest of my life. You were a one and only. I have a heavy heart for Addie and the children. Love, Marion
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05/25/2021
Paul and Linda Chew
This evening Linda and I were sad to hear of Mr. Lelyveld's passing after the fullness of a well-spent life. Mr. Lelveld spent his entire life in Rockland and gave much back to the community, a model of civic citizenship. As a youngster, I will always remember his kindness,his unfailing warm smile and even tempered approach to life when I worked for him at the Shoe Store. He gave me my first job with Phil. I am afraid we joked around more than worked. It was a long time ago, but I remember very well and warmly the kindess that his family showed me when I was at RHS and I was so proud to introduce Linda to you. I have been around Lelyvelds since 1959 when I started first grade at the McKinley School. In fact it was Bea Lelveld who was my first grade teacher, a truly gentle soul and perfect teacher. I don't want ot forget to say that my parents also felt very grateful for your friendship and support. Over the years it is hard to remember sometimes the separate influences which come together to shape one's life and views. Of course there were the high school teachers, friends, and family. But I will always remember Mr. Lelyveld's support and encouragement and temperment which I hope I have emulated in my career and life. Linda and I extend our warm feeling and fond rememberances to his family and many friends. Paul and Linda Chew
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05/25/2021
Lorraine Lordi
Few people in my life have made me feel as special and as noticed as Mark. What a sense of others has always had, a rare and truly wonderful gentleman. I will never forget his kindnesses and his twinkling eyes -- and the way he loved his wife. I'm so sorry for your loss, Addie.
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05/25/2021
Elaine DeCoste Fiber
Mr Lelyveld was the kindest man one could ever know. As a child, I had no idea what a pillar of the community he was. I just knew how I always loved going to the shoe store to get my Stride Rites and visit with the Lelyvelds. As the years went by and my distance from Butternut Lane increased, I would think of Mr and Mrs Lelyveld every time I saw Stride Rite shoes for children in a store. It was always such a pleasure to see them at our family events. Who would ever guess we would be inviting them to our children's Bar and Bat Mitzvahs? Please know that the Fiber and DeCoste Families send their deepest sympathy for the loss of Mark Lelyveld. His life was truly a blessing. Elaine and Frederick Fiber Mamie DeCoste Mark DeCoste
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05/25/2021
Courtney Lordi
What a wonderful write-up - I never knew so much about Uncle Mark! Butternut Lane has been home to some of the most kind and remarkable people I've ever known and Mark was certainly no exception. My heart goes out to Aunt Addie and his family. Much Love, Courtney
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05/25/2021
Bob and Norma Jasper
The town of Rockland has lost a gentleman who intensely loved his town and gave so much towards its future. We have also lost a dear and thoughtful neighbor who has been a part of our family life for all our days on Butternut Lane. We will miss him so very much. Our sincere sympathy to our dear Addie and her children, we wish so much we were home to share this sad time with all of you. Please know that Mark will always be a part of our fondest memories. Love, Bob & Norma
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05/25/2021
Andy Goldman and Evan Pitler
Dearest friend of mine, my 'brother' Dave, and to your wonderful family, Susanne, lovely Addie, Uncle Phil, Michelle, and the rest, our heartfelt condolences. From early on in my tenure with you all (almost two full decades!), ('Grandpa') Mark has been a cornerstone of your family's values, passion, caring and solidarity. His legacy is evident in the way you treat each other, and your friends. While I've only had the pleasure of meeting him in person a handful of times in my life, because of the warmth and heart of your family, Dave, and your life, I feel close to him, and to you all. We're sending big hugs from New York!! Andy Goldman and Evan Pitler, Brooklyn, New York
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05/25/2021
Stephen and Jeannine Lordi
It is so interesting to hear more details about Uncle Mark's life, despite the fact that Addie has given us so many stories and memories over the years. He was the ultimate Gentleman, in every sense of the word. His devotion to Addie (and hers to him) was truly inspirational. They knew they were blessed with each day they had together. Just a few days before he passed away, someone was admiring a photo from their "younger day" on his dresser, and said how beautiful Addie was. He made sure he removed his mask and let us know, "She still is!" He had a unique way of making you feel as though you made his day, no matter how poorly he was feeling. His kindness and humor will not be forgotten. We will miss you, Mark. You and your family are in our prayers. Love, Steve and Jeannine
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05/25/2021
Ellen Katz
Growing up in the late 50's and early 60's some of my most chershed memories are of vacationing at Whitehorse Beach with Susie, Stevie, pin ah, I mean Phil, Aunt Addie and Uncle Mark. We, the kids, would wake up early, sneak out to the beach, fly kites and then grudgingly going back up the stairs when Aunt Addie callled us up for breakfast. Some nights, though, Uncle Mark would disappear just before we kids went to bed. About twenty minutes after "light out" Uncle Mark would sneak upstairs and bring us Howard Johnson's fried clams! The memories are as sweet as those clams. I will miss him.
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05/25/2021
Jody Bailey Braden
Dear Mrs. Lelyveld and Family, I was so saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved husband and father. Some of my most joyous chilhood memories are those spent up at Lelyvelds waiting for my mother to stop talking!! I often recall those Christmas windows that brought all of us so much excitement each year. Mr. Lelyveld was such a kind man with the most amazing woman with him. My thoughts are with you all Jody Bailey (Tom and Virginia Bailey's daughter). Hope you remember me!
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05/25/2021
Denise DeCoste and family
I will always remember your dad as a true gentleman. I'll remember going to his store for shoes, his warm smile, his ability to give you his full attention when you had a conversation with him, his pride in his family, his love for his wife of 63 years. My love to Addie who has truly lost her soul mate.
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05/25/2021
Dick and Mary Pickett
0ur deepest sympathy to Addie and family at the loss of Mark. He was a perfect gentle man and so kind. He loved the town of Rockland and we all loved him.
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05/25/2021
Michael Minasian
I am sad to have learned, albeit belatedly, about Mark Lelyveld's passing. He was a dear, sweet, and brilliant man whose warm smile and engaging spirit always made servicing my bunions and hopelessly flat feet a caring and positive experience, regardless of however boring and brown those orthopedic shoes were. Mark and his family are the best of Rockland, and to be in their company was always an affirmation that you were in a good place. I send my sympathies to Mark's family.
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