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James N. Oates

10/20/1941 - 11/16/2007

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Obituary For James N. Oates

James Oates, 67 of Abington died on November 16 at the Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston after a period of failing health. He was born in Lynn, son of the late James E. Oates and Julia (Lewis) Oates. James was raised and educated in Lynn and graduated from Lynn Technical High School in 1958. Mr. Oates was a proud veteran of the Armed Services serving in the United States Marine Corps. James and his wife Sandra Oates were co-owners of JSJ Cleaning Company, a commercial cleaning company based in Abington for the last 20 years. Mr. Oates was a big sports fan. He enjoyed following the Boston area professional sports teams especially the Red Sox. James also loved to follow local High School Sports. Mr. Oates was an avid golfer who loved to play whenever he could find the chance. Mr. Oates was also a big animal lover. He especially loved his family cats. Animals also loved James. He actually had backyard squirrels trained to eat out of his hand. Mr. Oates also loved to spend time with his Grandchildren, and Great-Grandchildren. James is survived by his wife, Sandra Oates of Abington. Father of Donna M. Brown(Oates) of Lynn, Wendy L. McLaughlin of Quincy, Ronald W. Parker of East Bridgewater, Debra A. Marion of Abington, and Jonathan J. Oates of Abington. Also survived by 7 Grandchildren and 2 Great-Grandchildren. A Funeral Service was held in the Magoun-Biggins Funeral Home 135 Union St. ROCKLAND on Wednesday, November 21st at 11:00AM. Calling Hours took place on Tuesday, November 20th from 5-8 PM. Burial followed the services in Mount Vernon Cemetery in Abington.

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  • 10/08/2025

    Jim, my marine corps buddy. We were stationed at El Toro and in the same squadron. I even took you home with me over a long week end to Tucson Az. I think I still have a photo taken of us in Nogales Mex. Thought of you often. You were the best. Rest easy marine. JB Madison

  • 05/25/2021

    Growing up in West Lynn, we always were part of the gang. We played hard and always to win. Where has the time gone? RIP my friend, Lowbo

  • 05/25/2021

    Debbie and Family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I have you and your family in my prayers through this difficult time.

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna - I am so sorry for your loss. I know the sadness and heartache you are feeling at this time is overwhelming. You and your son are in my prayers. God Bless.

  • 05/25/2021

    How we will all miss you! I am greatful for how you treated me like family, I always felt I could be myself around you at family gatherings. You always made me laught my head off, your humor was one of a kind. I give all of you my deepest sympathy, you are ALL in my prayers!! I hope you like this poem. A sparrow fell! where were you god? a sparrow fell! god why werent you there? He was our family, don't you even care? If your god at all...then you could have prevented. This nightmare of pain! you must have concented, We always believed you were loving & good, we'd like to believe still, if only we could. So much sadness were feeling inside. Oh god...out there somewhere, have You ever cried? we're not even sure, anymore that your real, But if your god... do you care how we feel? *********************************** Beloved, I care in the midst of your stricken and crumbling grief. In the midst of the blackness of total dispair. In the midst of your questioning, child... yes I am there!!! "In the midst!" not far off in some vague fifth dimention. But there, where you are, giving you my attention. My constant attention... and not just today, since before you were born, I have loved you this way. Your important to me, every hair on your head I have numbered them myself, and count these tears that you shed! Go uncounted ,unnoticed? Nay, child, here I stand. Close enough that each tear drops fall into my hand. I know that you suffer, I know what you'll gain, If you let me walk with you into your pain. Ill carry your grief, and your sorrow I'll bear. You've only to reach out your hand...I am there! Fear nothing for James,your very dear man He is safe in my house, and all heaven is grand Yes, I could have prevented...but, child you see, With my perfect wisdom, trust James to me. Of course you will miss him, but while your weeping, Remember, its only his body thats sleeping His "self" is awake, wide awake As i said, I am gof of the

  • 05/25/2021

    To Maoates and Family, I am so very sorry about the passing of Jim, I want you all to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all. Love Lisa & Family

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna, I am very sorry for your loss. I know that you meant SO much to your dad and how very proud he was of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Cheryl Nicum

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna & Ethan I am deeply sorry for the loss of your dad and Grampy. You both have been in my thoughts.. Love Michael

  • 05/25/2021

    Very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Our regrets and sincere condolences to famly and friends.

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna & Ethan We are so sorry for your loss. Even know we could not be there for you today please know we are thinking of you in this difficult time. We love you. Love John, Theresa, Jason and Daniel

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna & family, I am so sorry for your loss, with my deepest sympathy that I send my condolences. Janine Hynds

  • 05/25/2021

    We are saddened by the passing of Jim. He was a funny and caring man. I enjoyed the time we worked together. Prayers and thoughts for your family. Kristy and Mike Hill (Compass)

  • 05/25/2021

    Pam & I are both very sorry to hear of Jims' passing. Our sincere regrets.

  • 05/25/2021

    Donna & Ethan Sorry to hear of your loss. Our Condolences Johnny and Justin Brown

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